The Offline Club Milano: the perfect way to unplug from technology and reconnect with people.

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A few months ago, I was struggling with an extremely annoying lack of concentration due to social media, notifications, and all kinds of distractions. But, while I was scrolling the news, I came across an article about a bar in Amsterdam that decided to offer their customers a new 90’s style atmosphere, in which people could meet and socialise the old way, without technology. In particular, the owners realised that people used to meet there but there wasn’t interaction because everybody was concentrated on their devices, smartphones, tablets and notebooks. People didn’t talk anymore and even didn’t appreciate their food and drinks. So, they decided to host The Offline Club, founded in Amsterdam by Ilya Kneppelhout, Valentijn Klok and Jordy van Bennekom.  The Offline Club is, according to Forbes:

“a pioneering venture that provides a face-to-face refuge from the omnipresent digital world. It offers a unique environment where individuals can unplug from technology to foster genuine human connections.”


I decided to know more about this amazing idea and discovered that The Offline Club is spreading its philosophy worldwide, even in Italy. That’s when I asked Sofia Bollini from The Offline Club Milano to tell me more about this project.


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-Sofia, do you remember when you decided to join The Offline Club philosophy? When and why did you make this decision?

I was first a participant of The Offline Club before becoming part of the team. At that time, I felt a strong need to meet new people and experience something new. I kept going to cafes and bars hoping for meaningful connections, but I quickly realized that everyone around me was absorbed in their laptops or phones. Thus, when I saw a video on Instagram about The Offline Club, it instantly resonated with me. The idea of an event where people disconnect from their phones to connect with one another felt like exactly what I needed. Without hesitation, I signed up for their next event. 



-How did you become a member of The Offline Club?

The first event was transformative for me. I left feeling completely regenerated, relaxed and filled with enthusiasm for the concept. It was a profound reminder of how important it is to disconnect from devices and be fully present. I also immediately felt that I needed to contribute and be part of this movement in some way. I wanted to help it grow because it is so needed in today’s hyper-connected world. My first step was helping to organize the first big event in a church in Amsterdam, which was nothing short of magical. Seeing so many people coming together, leaving their phones behind, and connecting in an authentic way was truly special. Fueled by my passion for The Offline Club’s mission, I immediately thought that Milan, too, could benefit immensely from such an initiative. I am from Milan and I know how hard it is to take a break from our rushed lives and meet new people in this vibrant but also isolated and fast-paced city. Thus, after months of planning and discussion together with the founders, I successfully expanded The Offline Club to Milan and bring its mission and values to a new country.


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-Have you ever experienced digital overload?

Absolutely, as a student especially, digital overload can be often present. Between online lectures, endless assignments, social media, and group chats, it's easy to feel like you're drowning in screen time. Moreover, it’s hard to set boundaries and it feels impossible to stop because everything happens online. The absurd part is that you’re always connected, but rarely truly present. After spending hours online, seeing the lives of others through a screen, I often realised that I wasn’t truly connecting with anyone and I missed the depth of real human connections.



-What kind of events do you organise?

The Offline Club is an initiative born in the Netherlands that focuses on the community by organizing events centered around being together, without the use of phones. Our motto is simple: "Swap screen time for real time." Our goal: less time spent on phones and more genuine, meaningful connections—both with yourself and others. We do this by bringing people together in unique cafes and venues that embrace a no-phone policy during the event. The event is divided into two parts: the first one is dedicated to time for yourself - people can read, write, draw, crochet, and just take a moment to fully relax and disconnect from the world. The second part is focused on socialising: people are encouraged to talk to strangers, use board games and delve into deep conversations with others.


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-How do you choose the locations?

Finding the perfect locations for The Offline Club is a process that requires time, care, and attention to detail. We look for spaces that combine comfort and connection—places with cozy couches and sofas where you can relax and read as if you’re in your own living room, and long tables that encourage conversation and bring people together. Each venue is carefully chosen after walking through the city, meeting with owners, and soaking in the atmosphere to ensure it fits our vision and creates an environment where disconnecting from screens feels natural.



-What kind of people are interested in your events? Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X…?

Our events are open to everyone and we always have a mix of people! That’s the good part about The Offline Club: it brings different generations together. We have students coming, Millennials and adults as well, since everyone feels the need to disconnect for a while. We even had a mom and a daughter coming together! It’s heartwarming to see adults chatting with younger people, and exchanging perspectives. Personally, I’ve had the chance to talk to people I’d never normally meet in other settings, and those conversations have been so enriching.


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-What kind of activities do you offer?

Our events are divided into 2 parts to create the perfect balance between relaxation and connection with others. The first part is dedicated to slowing down and fully connecting with yourself. People are free to do whatever they feel like. Some start reading, drawing or writing, others just observe the people around them and just relax with our background music. We bring some creative supplies and books to spark imagination and inner peace. Then, we switch to the second part, where the focus is meeting others. To make it easy, we usually provide some questions that are made to get to know each other, but in a meaningful and profound way. Thus, we have questions ranging from superficial and fun (“Which was the last trip you did?” or “If you could learn a new skill, what would it be?”) to deep and inspiring (“Which is the best advice you have ever received?” or “Which is the biggest obstacle you have ever overcome?”). Moreover, our selection of board games and conversation cards is perfect for breaking the ice and meeting new people.


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-What are people’s reactions during the events?

Surprisingly, some people find it difficult to stay silent and truly relax for the first hour. However, many also said that they wished the first part lasted longer because they felt it went by so fast.

Then, while some instinctively checked their pockets, others completely forgot about their phones - we even had someone leaving the event without taking his phone back!

In general, people’s reactions are very positive - they said it’s a fun and inspiring concept, where each time you meet someone new and have conversations that make you reflect on life. Our events help people calm down and think. One participant told me that it was truly insightful and that he felt less stressed and more relaxed without his phone - he could finally let his mind wander without distractions.


Thanks to Sofia for this enriching interview, which, I'm sure, will inspire a lot of people! 

The first thing I thought after reading the descriptions of the events was: "At last! We needed it!". Have you ever experienced digital overload? What do you think about the amazing philosophy of The Offline Club? Let me know in the comments.

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